I'm trying to let go of the need to be perfect - the need to try to be supermom. We are all supermoms. We each do the best that we can. Each day we head out into the world trying to do the best that we can. None of us wake up saying, "You know what? I'm going to really be a crappy person, a crappy parent today."
So can we quit beating up on each other? Breastfeed, don't breastfeed. Cover up or not. Homeschool or public school. Stay at home mom or work outside the home mom. We are all doing the best we can. Beating up on each other doesn't help anyone. We need to be a team because we need each other. We need to be a united front. We need to teach our children to be united with each other too and they will learn that from us. We must be the people we want them to become.